Do Guys Like Nipple Piercing On Women?
When it comes to nipple piercing for women, there are some very strong opinions and vocal comments from both sides. Women defend their right to adorn themselves with body jewelry, and resent the judgemental attitudes of men who see it as "slutty".
On the other hand, there are many women who are horrified at the very thought of puncturing a nipple - it is such a delicate and sensitive region of their bodies, yet they have to deal with partners who lust after any passing bust flaunting those extra little bumps that fairly scream "guess what I have ..."
That appearance of constantly erect nipples is something which many men find appealing - although some of them have to block from their minds the thought of what is causing that ever-so-desirable erect-nipple look!
Men are biologically wired to look for signs of sexual interest in women. Erect nipples are one of the most obvious signs, but men also respond to dilated pupils, blood-filled lips (hence the redness of sexy lipstick), and a range of physical movements, like licking fingers, tossing hair, and looking from under lowered eyelids.
Nipple piercings create the illusion of constantly erect nipples, so there is an elemant of an automatic reaction from men - when they see the piercings through clothing.
When the clothing is removed, though, some men find the hard metal nature of the piercings themselves just doesn't fit with the soft, yielding sensation they expect from a female body. Some men even see nipple piercings as the provenance of lesbians - although countless thousands of happily straight women would beg to differ!
The question is usually asked by women who are considering having a nipple piercing, and are worried that it might turn off a proportion of the available men.
There is certainly a bit of negative feeling out there:
Plus, any piercing or tattoos are somewhat unsightly due to the fact it is boyish and not very feminine.
They just look incredibly painful, plus aesthetically, it would just ruin for me what is already beautiful.
A nipple is a beautiful thing. There so round and puffy, taste lovely and get erect when you play with them. Why spoil it with metal.
Yeah. Looks trashy. Slutty.
On the other side, there are the guys who don't mind.
we just want to see ur nipples ! pierced or not :)
You got a girl telling blokes she has her nipples pierced and they reply mmmm nice. How does she not know the guys dont want to offend her? I mean if a girl had her nipples pierced and wanted to sleep with me, its not going to put me off but its not going to make me excited either.
i think they are sexy and they can be removed.
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An online poll of over 2000 men (where "men" were aged from 14 up), revealed the following:
63% of men said they liked piercings (although this includes some who only like pierced ears), and 30% said "it depends where on the body".
Only 5% said "no" to all forms of piercing.
12% of respondents said they liked nipple piercings, which is one in eight, although chances are that some of the other seven out of eight would happily tolerate them, even if they weren't particularly excited to discover their existence.
This compares with 7% liking nose piercings and only 3% liking labret piercings.
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Now, if you have had your nipples pierced for your own reasons, and you don't really want the sexual attention of all the men who notice bumps in your clothing, there are simple ways to conceal the piercings.
Obviously, you can wear bulky and lose clothing, but if you have a good figure and want to show it off, that wouldn't work so well. And in summer you want to wear light clothing, anyway.
What you need is fitted clothing which has some padding built in. The padding needs to be soft enough that the piercing can sink in, without being so soft that it distorts or conceals your natural shape.
There is a wonderful invention known as the T-Shirt bra, which fits the bill perfectly - as you can see in this picture.
The Alternative
If you're not ready to take the plunge and get your nipples pierced - or the lady in your life isn't - then you can always experiment with non-piercing body jewelry.
The decision, ultimately, belongs to the person who has to live with the consequences, and you should only go ahead with a body piercing if it is something you want for yourself, not because you think it will make you more attractive. Likewise, if you really want a nipple piercing, don't let fear of rejection by men hold you back from following your true desires.
The right guy for you will be the one who loves your body, just he way it is, pierced or not.Your body jewelry choices won't matter at all to right guy.
Your Verdict: Nipple Piercing - Sexy or Slutty?
I think there is a divide - some people are totally into it, and they just keep getting new piercings all the time, while others are very happy to have no holes in their body at all - or maybe just their ears pierced.
Interesting....Premsingh, there's piercing for navel too and...let's stop there!!!
LOL, weblog - don't go there! I had enough trouble finding pictures for THIS Hub ...
Hmmm I can understand :)
I want to say... ouch...!
Yes, Maylinda, many other women feel the same way!
NOO nipple piercings please!!
I have had the pleasure of experincing all kinds of piercings and I'm not a fan, or the down below piercings either..nor do i like those tongue and the above lip piercings or the ring through the nose!! Whats with that!! not attractive at all.!! I still would not say no though! lol:D
Believe me I'm NOT old fashioned either!!
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Ouch!!!
No thanks.
Thanks, compu-smart!
Well, that's one definite "no" from a guy - I wonder if we will hear from any guys who do think they are sexy?
It is not something my wife would consider--she has pierced ears only--but I would find it attractive. I don't like pierced eybrows, nose, lips, or tongue, but navel or nipples appeal to me.
Thanks, John! There you go - there's one, at least.
The female breast is beautiful! Piercing is not necessary, and a woman does it totally for herself and possible shock value that it may cause.
They look great but I would expect that they would get in the way for both the girl and her significant other. So I wouldn't actually want my wife to get them.
Thanks for the votes, guys. Interesting thought, Jim, that they can be attractive but not practical - nice to look at but not so much to touch?
I find like so many other things, it really depends on the female. For some the piercings really fit in great, while with others it just isn't quite as attractive. I don't find them unattractive, so I guess in some ways it's a "mood thing." Great topic, though, and interesting to see what everyone actually thinks.
Hmm, so that's a bet each way, then, from Jerry G2 ...
I can say that for me, my nipple piercing hurt like hell when I got it done, but I've found it hasn't gotten in the way of anything. It's just like getting your ears pierced- at first it hurts but then a few hours later you're fine. My boyfriend likes mine- but I totally agree with the fact that its hard to conceal (like at family bbq's in the summertime!).
Anyways, it's obviously not for anyone, but it sure beats getting your mucous membranes pierced. Ewww.
this is a tough question.......
on the one hand it looks looks like.......wow!
and having a piercing does not come across as de-feminizing a lady. unless , of course , it happens around the lips / mouth , and as long as the actual piece of metal is not too thick .
BUT i have one concern : would the lady in question not run the risk of severing some nerve ends in the process ? if it would lead to decreased sensitivity , it would not be worth it .
I agree a Breast is a beautiful thing, I am a Nipple man myself and don't want anything to block the view of this sexy sensual turn on.
Wow, thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings so openly everyone - this is great! And really interesting ...
Nice to read, and only for reading he he!!
Of course, blogdigz, we read HubPages for the articles ...
LOL.... I meant it is nice to read and not nice to try nipple piercing in real. Got me?
Nipple piercings sexy? Abosolutely! Not because they look erect behind a shirt. I just like them when they are nude....they just look sexy and are fun to play with, and women seem to get extra excited with them.
Well, there's another definite "YES" - thanks, Diego.
No......
that's weird....
And there's a very clear "NO" ... still a fairly balanced vote, so far.
I'd vote no on this one even though they are fun to see. Navel is nice though. All the traditional pleasure places seem best left with nerve endings unimpared, imo. I think some of the attraction of piercings is that they symbolically suggest more aggressive sexual attitudes or lienient bent. This tends to be a double edged sword imo, men being the hypocrits that we are.
Are you suggesting that they might come across as "slutty", then Shadesbreath? Nice to look at, but not suitable on a nice girl you can take home to mother ...?
Is that what you mean by "hypocrites", or do I have the wrong end of the stick?
As it were ... :)
I loved my nipple piercings! The only reason they had to come out is because I'm pregnant and I want to try breast feeding. They did hurt at first, but I loved the way they looked! Some guys were shocked, turned on, but they all wanted to play with them! lol! My husband liked them at first but once I got pregnant he kept bugging me to take them out. I told him I wanted to ut them back in after the baby deal, but he isn't for it! I couldn't care less! To hide them is easy, just a slightly padded bra that isn't see-thru. The only time you could see mine is in my PJ's anyway! My other favorite piercing on MEN is the labret! SEXY! I think my husband would look HOT with one but he is a super-conservative Texas man & I am the wild Liberal California girl. Love it or leave it fellas! I loved rubbing them against a man's chest, it's totally erotic! :-) I know I'll miss mine cuz Im missing them already! Regular nips are boring! lol.
Piercing is for ears only as far as I am concerned, the rest is way to weird.
You know, I don't think it really looks that bad. I know I wouldn't have the courage to actually go get myself one, but I can tell having pierced nipples would make a woman feel pretty sexy. I guess it's kind of like wearing a really sexy bra under a regular shirt, you know what i mean? Like sort of a hee-hee-wouldn't-YOU-like-to-know-what-I-have-in-here! It probably makes a woman feel sexier, and we all know when a woman FEELS really sexy, she can BE really sexy.
Neither... just painful! I am not aganist piercings, but I would never consider any kind of piercing myself, I had my ears pierced when I was 15 and it was so painful that I never used earings!
i just think it would hurt. it makes me cringe thinking of the pain!
By hypocrite I mean that men like that agressiveness in a woman on their (his) own terms. They like agression but only directed at themself. The possessive/competitive side of many men makes outbound agression (symbolic or active) on the part of women conflict with their desire inwardly. With some exception, probably a significant percentage, but still vastly in minority (in my estimation, but hardly based on research), they don't want to share that sexual assertiveness of "their woman" with other men, even symbolically.
Arguments can be made as to what that implies psychologically case by case, but that's hardly my point. Just because there's an explanation for why it rains doesn't mean you won't get wet if you're standing outside when it does.
Wow, thanks for that insight, Vegalove - it's nice to hear from the girls on this, too.
Another "NO" from the guys, and a couple more votes for "OUCH" - that seems to be a widespread response from women!
Maylinda, I know what you mean - there's nothing like wearing sexy underwear - or NO underwear - to put a sashay in your step.
Thanks for the clarification, Shadesbreath. I think you're right - a lot of guys want their women to be panting hot for them and completely disinterested in the rest of the world. As though libido can be turned on and off like a light, LOL.
I have nothing pierced. Yet, I admire the women who do. I think it's a sign of independence along with confidence in making a personal choice. I wonder how many women choose nipple piercing strictly to satisfy their own desires, as opposed to satisfying the desires of their partners. Now that I'm thinking about it, I wonder if intimate body piercing is something that partners engage in together to fulfill their mutual desires?
For me, a sign of independence was to burn a bra or a draft card.
Great hub, great comments.
Thanks, Sally's Trove. It is an interesting question whether women generally get piercings while they are in a relationship, or when they are single. And what about if you get a piercing to please a partner, and then the relationship breaks up? Do you remove the piercing?
I'm a guy, my libido does turn on and off like a light. I'm just not the one operating the switch.
LOL, Shadesbreath! I don't know that anyone is charge of pressing their own switches, man or woman ...
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No !
I think that whatever holes a person wants to stick in their body its their business... I just don't know if I could handle the nipple my tongue was hard enough.
But I wonder how people feel about piercing their children's ears. My daughter is now 7 and doesn't have her ears pierced. For me personally I just don't think that you should stick a hole in a person until they are ready for it. All that said, all of my friends have pierced their kids ears.
Interesting topic, thanks for this article.
PnP~Everything makes sense until it doesn't.
You're right PEN-n-PAD - I have seen babies who can't yet walk with pierced ears, and I do wonder whether experiencing all that paiin without understanding why has an effect on their psychology.
I have a friend who made her daughters wait until they were old enough to do the post-care themselves - about 8 or 10 years old - before allowing them to have their ears pierced. And I have friends who had to do their own after they left home because their parents just wouldn't allow it.
Excellent question. My ex thought nipple piercings made the female seem like a slut. Other relationships i have had say its hot and would gladly go with me. Another said that they could taste the metal and would prefer i not. So really there are some many opinions out there that it is really all about the person. My sister had her ears pierce when she was 3 me i was 8, 13, 16 (all the same hole kept closing) 20 for the second and 22 for the third set. My neice had hers done when she was 6. It is a good question Do piercings affect the psyci? I dont know to tell the truth my sister has a lot of peircings and i only have the three, but then again i have tatoos and she does not. its a toss up. what a great post thanks so much for the info. http://hubpages.com/_Commentbox/author/vortex2382/
I think that unexplained pain affects the psyche. If a girl is old enough to understand "it hurts, but the end result will be good", then you don't have to worry about psychological trauma. That age will vary with individual kids, though.
Well, answering original question - I think it's neither. It's just silly...
If my wife wanted to pierce her nipples it would be OK with me, but I don't think I would ask her to do it - sounds too painful.
This is just another example of external manifestation of insecurities. If the motivation for defiling your body is attention from strangers then a serious spiritual and or psychological consult is needed. It has been my experience that people who crave attention and reach for it by shock value or anti social behavior tend to keep pushing the limits. No nipple ring is going to make a man more attracted to a woman than the nipple itself. Fantasies realized seldom deliver the expected emotions. A mans imagination is better with limits and playing into them with artificial erect nipples is contributing to the objectification of women, not leading them to independence. Every impulse does not need to be satisfied nor does every fantasy. Women often remark that chivalry is dead and bemoan the lack of respect they get from men all while trying to run from traditional femininity. If a woman wants to flaunt her genitals as her greatest attribute she shouldn't expect any attention directed to anything else.
Call me old fashioned but I still get turned on by passion, not by metallurgy.
What an intelligent and impassioned response, funnebone! And thanks for the votes, Misha and glycodoc.
There is a fascinating array of opinions on this one - I am grateful for the whimsical impulse that led me to ask myself the question in the first place, and then to make a Hub about it. I am impressed with the calibre of people who read and comment on Hubs here, too - some real food for thought is coming up in the comments.
Thanks, everyone, and keep 'em coming. Email this Hub URL to all your friends ... ;)
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i don't want my girlfriend to have this. yike i have goose bumps.
Pretty interesting subject ma'am.
I personally like piercings -- nipples and otherwise -- on women. I also think tastefully done tattoos are extremely sexy. For me it hearkens back to our tribal days when images contained power and ornamentation set the leaders apart from the tribe. It implies empowerment of the individual, a strong will and self-image. And strength is sexy.
That's a really interesting perspective, grendel173. I wonder if the women who have piercings do experience that sense of empowerment?
I don't, I think that belly button piercings are sexy as hell but nipple piercings are a big turn off for me.
Interesting the big difference in your reaction, depending on where the piercing is. Thanks for dropping by and sharing that, kpfingaz.
Do other guys notice the same kind of differences? Some piercings are great and others are a turn off?
I prefer women as they are, without any artificial additions like clothing or jewelry :)
I generally can tolerate this, though. Nipple piercing is a separate story, cause girls are risking to make their breasts useless for their future children - that's why I think it's silly - in other words, interferes with human specie survival...
I can understand that feeling, Misha - I like my men unadorned, too. And preferably slightly unshaven ...
... and yes, making holes in one's body always carries an element of risk.
for me its not....its so ouch...
I wince just thinking about it.
Hmmm, seems we have a growing weight of opinion gathering behind "ouch ..."
no piercing does look nice when its done on the belly button, may be it would look nice on nipple too but when it comes to sexual intercourse you defenitly would wana suck and lick the nipple and i dont think any one would like the taste of the metal or whatever rather than the soft and juicy nipples, lol bieng honest
I find ear piercings and navel piercings attractive, however, the rest of them do not appeal to me. Tounge piercings are just flat out dangerous. Do you really want an open wound in one of the most germ ridden places in your body? Same goes for genital piercing. They are just not sanitary enough. An infection in either place could be fatal.
Thanks for the really honest comments, guys. It's just fascinating to hear people's different thoughts on this.
I don't like women with nipple piercing, I like it natural
not too big or too small, as long as with good shape and firm
Women are already wonderful the way they are , don't ruin it with piercing or anything
Women are beautiful as they are. Piercing the nipples is one of silliest thing a girl can do.
I think that is gross
different strokes for different folks!
i love women with there nipples pearced
I'll pass. Having four kids was painful enough.
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i m minor n thinks abt all disscusion. i 'll reply soon after asking....
Piercings aren't defiling your body at all. For some people it is just a way to adorn body parts you like. I don't think that people only do it for attention, you'd have to be pretty pathological to put yourself through pain for something you only wanted to impress other people. I have my nipple pierced, and I pierced it because I was sexually abused as a child, and have been struggling with ownership of my body. Having my nipple pierced was not only a fairly meaningful experience but I think it is quite aesthetically pleasing. (this is in response to "This is just another example of external manifestation of insecurities. If the motivation for defiling your body is attention from strangers then a serious spiritual and or psychological consult is needed. It has been my experience that people who crave attention and reach for it by shock value or anti social behavior tend to keep pushing the limits. No nipple ring is going to make a man more attracted to a woman than the nipple itself. Fantasies realized seldom deliver the expected emotions. A mans imagination is better with limits and playing into them with artificial erect nipples is contributing to the objectification of women, not leading them to independence. Every impulse does not need to be satisfied nor does every fantasy. Women often remark that chivalry is dead and bemoan the lack of respect they get from men all while trying to run from traditional femininity. If a woman wants to flaunt her genitals as her greatest attribute she shouldn't expect any attention directed to anything else.
Call me old fashioned but I still get turned on by passion, not by metallurgy.)"
Thanks for the thoughful response, Jenny. It's an interesting way to reclaim your power over your own body.
I see we have had one more unequivocal "yes" and several more "no"s from the guys. Still fairly polarised, here ...
Well, I don't personally find nipple piercings attractive in a sexy way. I can find all sorts of piercings aesthetically interesting and artistic but if I am answering whether as a guy I find nipple piercings (or anywhere else) on women attractive I would answer, no!
I kind of feel like it is mutilating your body, especially as it is a "sexual" part of the body, as opposed to a belly button piercing for instance. I also have horrible ideas about how painful it would be if you were to tear the ring out by accident, i.e. such as catching it on something, even if only a piece of your partner's clothing. Too risky for me!!!
I really love nipple piercings on good looking women !!!!!!
My wife tried the non piercing jewelry first to see what she thought about it. She like the feeling but said that she did not believe tht a permanent peircing was for her. I loce the look of the decoration af the beautiful part of her body. It accents her beauty.
The choice to pierce is the womans and if he man loves the woman no thing should turn him off.
Piercings of all kinds are likeable. I have my nipples and my tongue pierced and find it quite sexy when women have piercings other than thier ears. The only turn off is when there are multiple piercings in the same area i.e. multiple eye brow, multiple lip, and so on. Piercings are a way to express your body just like tattoos but there is such thing as too much. Women with gaudy tattoos seem to be a turn off because yes it does put off a butch appearance but those that are simple and placed perfectly get the mouths drooling of many men. So all in all yes nipple piercings are a definate turn on. GO FOR IT!
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i think pierced nipples are one of the hottest things a woman can do. they: look awesome, feel awesome, everything awesome. but thats just me.
I think nipple piercings are really hot, could you post these pictures in a little bigger, we can't really see anything. thanks
I think that pierced nipples are beautiful, my wife speak about to get hers nipples pierced. I hope one day that she have them pierced.
Nipples with a gold ring is one of the the hottest thing I know.
I have only ever had one piercing. My left nipple. I love it. I love it on women too. Just one of those things i find incredibly hot.
I always had inverted nipples and was soooo self concious.
i decided to get my nipples pierced so i wouldnt mind having sexual partners look at my bewbs. the minute i got them pierced they were no longer inverted, infact there permanently erect :) I have so much confidence in my bewbs now id show them to anyone :)
The pain on a scale of 1-10 was about 4 for the left and 6 for the right . . only lasted about 10 minutes though and den i for got about them :) i love them!!
Ok, so I got my nipples pierced when I was 18. I got it done because I was used to my parents controlling me so much that I wanted to have some control. I went in expecting excruciating pain, so I was pleasantly surprised when it did not hurt that badly. I was actually going to get one nipple done, but after the first one I changed my mind and got both done. I was not and am not sexually active, so I did not care how my piercing would be viewed by others. It is my body anyway and If a guy has a problem with it than I wouldn't want him in my life anyway. I didn't get it just for attention either. I feel like that is more of a facial piercing thing.The piercings were only for me and I enjoyed seeing them because it was my choice. In the end, I decided I did not want the piercings. so I took them back out. I am still happy that I made that choice because it is something that I decided to do. The joy of piercings is that you can always take them out! I don't think anyone looks good covered in piercings but a few are nice. I love a guy with a lip ring =)
I love nipple rings on women,, the bars are ok, but nipple rings yea baby,, i love to play with them and even sucking on a nipple with a ring in it is hot. would love for all women with nipple rings to show them to me :)
Yeah I like if you send me your nipple photoes.
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My husband put one in himself a few months ago, and when he first showed me, I hated it. We have been together for 26 years, and it was a big surprise! I have grown to really like his. Tomorrow is his birthday and I am letting him do one on me. I am pretty nervous, but honestly, after having 5 kids, how bad can it be?! I plan to have a glass of wine beforehand... For courage! ;-)
I just had mine done about a week and a half ago. I absolutely love them. I can't even tell they are pierced. My right one was done first and I didn't even flinch. The left one though was a little more painful. Apparently there is a crunching, popping sound that can happen and my left one did it. I didn't hear it though although I sure did feel it. Ten minutes later I was fine. I have had some people ask me why and my answer is just because I could. It's my body and I love my breast. I hate when I hear people say it's "trashy" or "slutty." It isn't. Just like so many other things in the world today it's "tabo." For everyone that's asked me why, I just want to ask them why did they get their ears pierced or why did they get a tattoo? What is the point of any piercing or tattoo? It's to express yourself freely and that's what I did. If some man doesn't like it, oh well that's his problem. If my guy didn't like it he can get over it. Like I stated earlier, it's my body. I absolutely love them and it's more power to me. I know way too many guys that have only had one nipple pierced because it hurt so bad. After I got mine done the guy who did them told me I was a badass for not flinching or crying. I wouldn't change them for the world. I love all my piercings and tattoos. Who cares what a guy is going to think of them. If he likes you and wants to be with you he will not care about your nipples being pierced.
I saw a photo of a nipple piercing about six months ago when I was getting my ear done. I thought the photo looked terrible, with very ugly jewellery. I started to wonder what a nipple piercing would look like with quality jewellery. I have my belly button done, with a very plain piece of jewellery, and thought that having one nipple done with a matching piece of jewellery would look lovely. I never wanted to get my nipple pierced, but ever since that day I have had an overwhelming urge to get my left one done. I have no partner and no intention of showing anyone, but I have an appointment for tomorrow morning. I just can't ignore the instinctive urge any longer. I'm doing it for me, because I think it will look beautiful.
What a wonderful collection of opinions in this article. I have been considering getting my nipple pierced for about a year now and this article and the comments on it have definitely given me some food for thought. Thanks!
Personally, I think pierced nipples on a woman are the ultimate physical turn-on. Additionally, I have my own pierced and gauged as well. I'm not sure what originally possessed me to get them done but over time, I have become very fond of how they feel. In general, I'm just a fan of piercings and tattoos. Among other reasons, I think they are capable of accentuating one's natural beauty.
I'm a female who's had their nipples pierced and I really enjoy them. I wear bras with light padding to conceal them, since I'm not in it for the attention (which many people seem to think is the main motivation for this particular piercing. I'm sure it is for some people, but in my case only 3 people in my life actually know about them at all). I got them done for a couple reasons.
1: Body Acceptance. Like most people, I have had a TON of body issues. I put off getting them done for years because I didn't like how a lot of pics on the internet looked (especially on heavy/large breasted women, which I am). I actually don't like the way they look on most people, though I respect everyone's right to do what they want with their own body, I just didn't find it aesthetically pleasing most of the time. Once I really thought about it, and actually started to like what I saw in the mirror when I looked at myself, I had a desire to decorate. I mean, I think I have a great rack, why wouldn't I think some flash could make it better? Trees are naturally beautiful, we still cover them with lights and tinsel at Christmas time, right?
2: Sensitivity! I am a girl with big breasts (which a lot of men love), who never got much out of having her breasts or nipples touched/sucked/tweaked etc.etc.etc. Unless they were being touched in very particular ways or with a LOT of pressure I could still feel the sensation of being touched, but it did absolutely 0, nothing, nada for me sexually. (I know a fair number of other girls who say the exact same thing). Now, some people do lose sensitivity with this piercing, but while I was in the research phase, besides creeping blogs and bmezine.com, I talked to at least 5 or 6 girls I know at school or work who have them done and they ALL reported increased sensitivity. After hearing that I started to think "You know what? I would really like to actually GET something out of all of the attention my tits get in the bedroom!" After I went for it and got them done I was totally surprised that whenever something brushed the front of my shirt, even ever so slightly, I would feel an amazing sensation that made my breath catch in my throat. It's awesome. I finally like having them touched as much as guys like to do the touching. I don't care if a guy isn't keen on how they look or if he buys into some stigma that girls with nipple piercings are trashy, having them there makes what he's doing to them actually count for ME. They make his attention exciting, sexy, and satisfying.
So, there you go. I didn't get them done for attention. I didn't get them done for shock value. I didn't even get them done for the purely aesthetic "I don't know why, I just like how they look" reason, since I actually don't like the way they look on a lot of people. For me, my body, and my reasons, it was a great choice.
I am thinking about a nipple piercing. I cannot do it know because I am in physical training and it would hinder it's recovery - but I have looked into it alot. The only reason I am aprensive about it is because how some people look at it (the topic) and say outright NO. To me it is a 'Who I am thing'. I just one want one. I am not slutty at all; every actually sees me as a very nice, kind sweet girl. I have my upper left ear peirced, my ear lopes and I want my right breast pierced I think... I am afraid of other's critisism. Why do you judge my sexiness, my appearance before knowing me? I will not allow you to see it before I show it to you - you don't have to know it's there. Is it really that unattractive? I do not want to be unattractive. To me, I feel it would be a confidence thing... but maybe I am just trying to find something more from a simple piercing. Then again, people do alot of other things (wearing heels, combing their hair a certain way, lucky socks, certain smile) that makes them feel confident, secure, and good being themselves - why can I not have this? Could someone tell me why? It doesn't actually hinder breastfeeding nor is it any more risky than some other piercings - Plus I just want one (not two)... but still... I haven't gotten it done yet so who's to say I ever will?
I have my right nipple pierced and one of my exes totally hated it so i took it out. but then i met a guy who totally loved it and now keep it in at all times. i love it and its definately made my nipple more sensitive. as long as the guy ur with is honest about how he feels about piercings, everything will be fine.
Lol as long as it's not like a vaginal piercing or a weird piercing like the bull nose.
im a young female and i got my right nipple done about a year and a half ago.. i think it looks/ feels absoloutly FABULOUS! (sp?). everytime it gets brushed past/ accidently touched it sends shivers up my spine and i get fully turned on.. i even have to watch out for cold weather!
whoever said that piercing the nipple decreases sensitivity is LIEING - Both me and my ex-gf found that it increased the sensitivity, if anything.
we got them done as we both thought it was something that felt right at the time, and we've never looked back since. Oh and.. They didnt hurt ONE BIT!(:
When i had it done, it was with a ring (i know, one of the worst things to do), and it got cause on absoloutly EVERYTHING!!! Doors, Pillows, Tables, Belts.. =S
I love everyth8ing about it. theyre sexy ;)
so its a deffinate YES from me =)
I am a female and had my left nipple pierced about two months ago...I agree with Tripp, this INCREASED my sensitivity greatly but i must admit that i do prefer the look of one rather than two. Also, i think the comment made on 'shock value' quite accurate for me, as ive always been a conservative quiet girl and the piercing made me feel liberated and sexy. I think its dependent on the female and im pretty sure that not much can get in the way of a guys love for boobs!
IT is very interesting and later painfull
I think Piercing nipples is sexy as hell. If my girl is willing I would be all for it. I would do it with her if she wanted. Granted, I don't think guys look sexy at all with them, but hey, if she wanted me to. I would. The fact is, in the end, I want HER to be happy. To me, it's jewelry. I don't wear the stuff much but, hey, what ever puts a smile on her face first is what counts.
I'm actually getting both of mine pierced tomorrow; I've been wanting it for a long time and now I am FINALLY getting to do it; very excited.
I've always enjoyed nipple play; I hope that this increases my sensitivity, in all actuality.
I've always had small tits, but I have always had this thing where I think small breats look fantastic with pierced nipples - I guess getting my own pierced had always been a little fantasy that never thought would actually be a reality, until now. As for the pain...not concerned about that at all. I mean, seriously, you're putting a hole in your body, it's probably going to hurt. Depending on what you're into, though, that can be a lot of fun, too ;).
Pierced nipples for attention? When are you going to be able to walk around publically with no shirt or bra? It just seems like a silly thing to assume that piercing a part of the body that is generally always covered...is, well, unreasonable.
I'm doing this for me, and that's what it comes down to. If you want it for you, then great, but if you're only thinking about doing it or worrying that someone will think you are trashy, well, then don't. Just be confident with yourself, and guys...well, I don't think discovering a nipple ring would be a definite "NO" :D.
Cia!
I recently got my nipples pierced, and I love them. I have smaller boobs, and I think they really accent my breasts. My husband loves them, I don't go around telling everyone or showing everyone no one sees them but my husband, even my family doesn't know I have them. I have 3 kids and I'm done so I don't have to worry about that. I didn't do it for anyone but me and guys that think that it's trashy or whatever are dumb. I've only kissed one man my whole life and I have tattoos and piercings, I think people are all too quick to judge, when they should worry about there own crap!
I just had mine done two days ago. I got them both done because I figured I would like my breasts to match. I got them done and it hardly hurt at all. I was even able to sleep on my stomach just a few hours later, and there has been no pain since. I told my sister who launched into a tirade that I'm a effing idiot slut and she lost all respect for me. I told her off because I got them done for myself. I'm single and did not get them done to impress guys. It was very empowering and liberating. I'm a business woman and I feel a good knowing I have a little secret under my shirt that no one knows about unless I want them to. Overall I think they are great. Get them done for yourself to make you happy and screw the stuck up people who think they are for sluts and lesbians. They have a stick in their ass.
I think its too good than other methods
I'm not a lesbian, but I think nipple piercings look great on women! I just got my right nipple pierced and I absolutely love it. I didn't even feel it (and I ALWAYS feel piercings) and I just love the way it looks. I went from being painfully shy about showing any part of my body (even my arms) and hating almost every part of my body to loving my breasts again. I'm going to get my left one pierced after the right one heals!
And they definitely aren't for sluts... I'm a virgin and I have mine done, and the friend I went with is also a virgin. I didn't do it for attention either. I wear padded bras and thicker t-shirts to make sure that it's not visible.
If you're thinking about it, do it! It's one of the best things I've ever done for myself.
well let see i think it's hot for a women to have them done
I got mine done yesterday! the pain was COMPLETELY tolerable. I was very suprised how much it didnt hurt, but I think they look very good. It also definitely increases senesitvity. i say that if you like a guy who likes your style they will probably love your nips. If you go for some conservative button up boy they will probably not enjoy it. =) but I LOVE mine already.
I have one piercing - my left nipple. I got it done about seven years ago and can't imagine not having it. I would love my wife to get her nipples pierced as they look so sexy but I've not been able to convince her. She has a pierced belly button, had a nose stud when she was at university, and likes my nipple ring, but I can't convince her to get her nipples done.
Arrgghhh! I just cannot understand why anyone would...arrgghh! But thanks for the explanations. Yikes!
I think that women that have nipple and belly button piecersings are absolutely HOT
For sure!! nipple piercings are Hot and so much fun....for not just women,but men also...
i kinda like the whole piercing idea, i wouldnt get my eyebrow or nothing done, i got my nose, i got both my nipples done. and ive always wanted my "down below" pierced .!
After an awful lot of research, I did mine myself a couple of months ago. What a great decision. I had always liked the way pierced nipples looked on women, but I tend to be pretty conservative and never imagine myself having them. My boyfriend and I had talked about it, but i was worried about the pain. I ordered some numbing cream and piercing tools. I wasn't comfortable with having someone I didn't know pierce my nipples ... I don't recommend what we did for everyone. The piercing went exceptionally well, no problems, no pain, and looks wonderful.
This was a very personal decision between the 2 of us. It was not for anyone else. It was not for attention. It is something we both like. Everyone is right, it does increase sensitivity. It also makes me feel sexy for myself (and him) ... not for anyone else.
The other things that is suprising is that we aren't young, "hip", couple ... we are in our late 40s, both have grown children, very conservative, both upper management in a large company, and people who know us would never think we would do anything this.
We love that it's something very sexy between us, just us.
About 8 years ago, I asked my wife to have ger nipples pierced and she agreed. They look absolutely fabulous, particularly with rings, rather than bars and they certainly help provide extra stimulation when we make love. She also has her belly button pierced and 2 more lower down.
We. like UdBsurprised are in our 50's and have profrssional jobs. It's a great turn-on having this as our secret.
I love womens nipples either way. But a pierced nipple on a women is extremely hot. I don't see any reason not to, if the woman wants to do it. Anyone that loves a woman would except it no matter what, but for me, I think it is a big turn on. I would say go for it....
I'm a girl that had gotten nipple piercings, but I had taken them out because an old boyfriend hated them. He thought piercings on girls were nasty. I know that I had little sensitivity before the nipple rings and after the piercings I didn't see any different, except maybe noticing pain more.
The pain of the piercing is different for each person too, I think. I barely felt anything (my lack of sensitivity?), but I have a friend who thought the piercing was horribly painful. I guess I should have gone for somewhere with more sensitivity like a clit hood piercing =]
I like many girls with ear rings and the like however I met them already pierced.
I liked this one girl in college and still do but after she and several of her friends went to get their ears pierced. I found that they looked somehow more cheap, just not as nice looking anymore.
I think that for me personally If I ever decided to fornicate I would be turned down a cupple notchs in desire if the girl had nipple rings and more so if there was anything below. Goes for tattoos as well they look cheap to me even on Guys.
I love nipple piercings on a woman. There's an implied submissiveness that comes from having gone through the piercing itself and having the ring or whatever there to see and play with. Plus, of course, you can always tie them to things! My current and several past girlfriends had theirs done and they all loved to show them off. It seemed like an excuse they could get away with (they were all a bit on the exhibitionist side, but then I believe most girls are given the right circumstancesm otherwise why bother with make-up?)
If you're the kind of girl that wants piercings, go for it. They will attract the kind of guys that like them.
I got one nipple pierced just yesterday. Im a single woman and i wanted it done for me. I have quite a few piercings. six in each ear, my navel and my toungue. I also have one very small tattoo well hidden. Personally i did not have my body art done for anyone apart from myself, i love all my piercings and i designed the tattoo myself. i think that people who have these things done for the sake of anothers, in my opinion are quite silly because you dont know how long that person will be there to feel that way.
I simply believe that any sort of body art is a physical manifestation of your personality and character, thats how it is for me anyway, im very bubbly and outgoing. If and when the right guy comes along they wont mind.
My nipple did not hurt too much at all, just to people who are thinking of getting it done, make sure it is done properly, just above the nipple to miss the major nerves and milk ducts, it will settle to the midle after a few months.
LOVE the blog :) .x.
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I think the taste of metal when sucking a nipple and the feeling of it clacking against my teeth is enough of a distraction for me to not like nipple piercings. However I wouldn;t judge someone because they had one, it's their body. I just wouldn't find it even remotely attractive.
Throws off the taste, looks good cuz the extra metal gets the etra attention, but I dont want my wife getting all of that extra sexual attention. Why ruin a good thing?, I say try it and grow out of it then remove it.
i think they look wonderful and would recomend that any woman that thinks about it should try it
I love them! They symbolize the freedom I have as a female to express my sexual nature. It's a very erotic thing to have. You would never look at me and suspect me of having one either as I often come off as shy and sweet. That thought alone turns me on ;)
I love women breast nipples, when they sexually aroused
I love pierced nipples and navel. I find it extremely sexy!
It seems painful... My bf wants me to get my nipples pierced so he can have more fun plus he says my nipples are perfect and all and thinks it will look really sexy... I just wonder about health risks... Now all the sudden I wanna get my nipples pierced I'm just scared!!
I find many of the comments stating that women only get their nipples pierced only out of an insecurity or a need for attention to be both lacking in facts and to be slightly anti-feminist. I think it is important to respect that a women has the right to alter her body in any way she feel fit, it is basic autonomy.
Women's roles have expanded beyond merely reproducing. Who cares if it harms her ability to reproduce, maybe she doesn't want to have children. But that entire argument is lacking in fact once again. Getting nipple piercings does not harm a woman's ability to reproduce. While there is a slight chance of impeding future breast feeding, the majority of women have no issues. And let us remember that babies can be fed without breast milk.
By getting nipples pierced, women can add to their sexual experience. For many, nipple piercings feel good, women find it sexually arousing.
Can it be a form of empowerment? I believe so.
Yes it is painful, but many things in life are painful, but are still worth it.
I have had mine down, and if a future partner cares, well then screw him. It was my choice, and he can act as he sees fit, as I did.
Way to go, Jess! I agree with your post 100% and I'm glad that someone started standing up for women's choices.
If a woman is confident enough to pierce herself, I think men should find it sexy... or tolerable at the very least. After all it's her body. Honestly, it seems to me like most of the men who find it a turn off are simply insecure. They seem to feel threatened by a girl who knows her body and knows what she wants.
Furthermore, not all pierced girls are the cheap sluts you some of you make us out to be. I have a couple of rings (yes, one in a very intimate area) and I've only had two sexual partners in my entire life - my ex-husband and my fiance. I didn't pierce myself to look for attention from other men. I did it for myself and my own enjoyment! If it's not taboo for men to enjoy physical pleasure why should it be for women?
So before we start blaming pierced women and labeling them as unfeminine, aggressive, slutty, cheap, and desperate, maybe we should examine the psychology behind (some) men's disdain for bodily adornments.
I'd also like to point out that I find the author's comments on this board a bit biased and slightly unprofessional. Journalists should stay neutral when participating in conversations about their own articles. Throw in some interesting questions to spark additional conversation and thank people for giving opinions, but refrain from providing your own two cents for the sake of the story!
Love them on nipples and bellies
We have two kids so thats out of the way and my wife has just pierced both nipples as an eternity gift to our our marriage. We have talked on this subject for many years until building up the courage to get them done, so my advise to anyone would be think about when in your life and to be sure. I do not see my wife as slutty as some people commented on, but as a very confident and loving person. She is also damn HOT! enough after more than a decade of marriage. I think I am a very lucky hubby and my wife looks great with her new toys. Remember we are free people and should pierce or not pierced as we as individuals see fit.
First, let's get somethings straight. It is the worst, most excruciating pain I have ever experienced in my life. Was it worth it? Hell yes. I absolutely love my pierced nipples. The initial pierce was the worst,..but after they are in the worst is over. Healing is a breeze, easiest piercing i've taken care of.
I feel that they are empowering, at least to me. The fact that I actually did something THAT painful is very symbolic to me. They also feel great! I can be turned on so easily just because of them.
They make me feel more confident, even if it is something that most people cannot see. And you wouldn't expect someone like to me to have both her nipples pierced... :) So if you're contemplating, my suggestion to you is to just balls up do it.
Body piercing is it a choice? Or rebelling against your parents and society will
I'm a huge fan of nipple piercings, but it depends greatly on the breast shape/size, also the size/type of jewelery chosen whether or not a piercing looks attractive.
I'm not heavily pierced or largely into the body mod scene (only have Prince Albert done, best decision of my life! :) ) but in my opinionthe nicest nipple piercing I've seen is a Captive Bead Ring, (CBR) approx. 12mm Dia. x 1.8mm Gauge, I don't like the little bars that much...
I've had my tongue done first, then both sides of mylower lip. the last thing that i've recently got done were my nipples. the first one didnt hurt that bad, but the second one hurt worse bc i knew wat it was going to feel like. its only been 2 days but completely worth it. my fiance really seems to like them though. he's much on sluttyness... so do i think they're slutty? no
I recently got both my nipples pierced. I found that it was not at all painful compared to my other piercings (I have my tongue and cartilage pierced). I really like them because they are easy to hide (like all of my piercings) and are like my little secret. I don't think that having my nipples pierced is slutty because I honestly did them because I wanted to and not for anyone else. I am not a huge fan of tattoos and piercings that are large and evident because all I can ever think is "what about when you're 50?" I like my piercings and don't regret any of them. Each to his/her own.
I got my nipples pierced 2 years ago and I still love em to this day! I love the look of em and I never had sensitive nipples to begin with so it didn't ruin anything for me there. = ) Men seem to love em too, though I can only account for one or two.
My fiance and I made the decision for me to get my clit hood pierced about 9 months ago. I then made the decision to get both nipples pierced about 2 months ago. For me, it was something I had wanted for a while and now that I am 28, I got them.
Some people might say that piercings are something young people are doing to rebel against parents these days... I am 28 and my fiance is 46... we're not rebeling against anything. But we love my piercings. I like the way they look and I've had many professional erotic pictures taken of my piercings. I have tattoos also.
To each there own..
I think they are sexy. I actually came across this site because I am doing research because I am about to get my nipples pierced, and my hood too. My boyfriend is all for it too. He's really excited for me to get both done, and so am I :)
I find myself in a state of total and complete arousal whenever seeing or sometimes just thinking about pierced nipples on a woman. I imagine devious little devices with chains connecting one nip to the other after a trip around the neck and where the chains cross between the breasts, I'd have a small ring connected to a second chain linked to a clit/hood piercing. The idea is that as the braless breasts swayed and bounced, the chain links would send delightful little vibrations downline to excite and drive her (and I) WILD. Did I mention that I love nipple piercings on women? Strange thing though, I don't really care for any other piercings or tattoos other than what I mentioned. I am in the process of begging my beautiful wife to get some rings for us both to enjoy.
I never thought about getting my nipples pierced until I hooked up with a guy that had one done, and I learned that he absolutely loved having his nipples played with. For me it was a huge turn on to know that I just had to play with his ring, and he'd be turned on. So this year for Xmas I plan on getting my right one pierced as a gift for myself. I love the idea of secret sexiness, its like wearing sexy underwear underneath a uniform, nobody has to know unless you want them to.
ITS NOT A GOOD IDEA..Any responsible man will dump that girl.After sucking that metal for couple of days just trust me.I like Sucking Nipple then all of a sudden it turns out to be Skin plus metal.I do not buy that.Women out there,All men wants real hardened Nipple after you play with it.Leave it Natural cos we love it.Good luck to all women.....Lace 25yrs
I plan to get mine done soon. I am single, so its a personal thing. I want to have it done for myself, because I love the look of them. It doesn't bother me that some men might not like it. I am getting it for me, not them. (Hence it brings up the phrase: its my body not yours.)
Out of curiosity I have had 11 piercings. Most who know me will never know, because they are of course in places not visible unless my clothes are off. I love my body, I respect my body and I do what pleases me. I don't look for attention and I most certainly didn't get my nipples pierced for a man. I did it because I personally liked it. Being confident is a beautiful thing. Confident in my body and in my decision to accessorize! If a guy looks at my naked body and can't handle the piercing or doesn't like it, then on to the next. As individuals we should do for ourselves and not for others and what they may think. I love my piercings and I'm very happy I made the decision to get each one.
Can you please tell me where you got the pictures on this page? You have a photo of me.
I have planned out navel piercing, more ear piercings and a couple of tattoos in the nearest future. At the point I have just 7 ear piercings and they all are great. Loving each and every one of them. Lately I have been thinking about getting my nipples pierced too, but that is not jet set in stone so to say :D
Some say that people who get these are insecure about their own body. Persionally I find body modifications extremely beautiful and it is a huge turn on, if I see it on my partner too. It all comes down to the taste of each individual.
I got my nipple pierced last week. It hurt just a little.
You can't see it trough clothing, certainly not under a bra. But maybe that's because I'm not wearing a ring but a bar. I just like the way it looks..
I just recently got my nipples pierced... My boyfriend has one of his pierced so its kind of cool that we can have that in common. Honestly I love them! They hurt like crazy but it kinda makes me feel sexy.. Its self satisfying. And they make me feel, confident in a way. they are easy to hide and my boyfriend loves them. Its deffinitly something you have to think about though, its not for everyone.
My wife has both nipples pierced I really wasn't into it at first, but after they been done for almost 2 yrs. I don't think I would like them natural, it makes them tender so she doesn't like fondling them so much but those 38c's are beutiful to look at! She hit the spot by piercing, its a pleasure just to look at them.
I just had mine done (both nipples) and beside the fact that it hurt...I will definitely love having them. I know they are there and it makes me feel really sexy. Its like having a really sexy bra under a plain shirt. Honestly, I did not do it for others, I did it for myself and my 38DDD's just look good!!!
Body piercings are a huge turnoff. Same goes for tattoos. Just my opinion.
Along with about %85 of men, I dislike it, and not because I think it makes you look "trashy" or "slutty". (I can never understand why guys criticize girls for being sexy and giving us exactly what we WANT!) My attitude is, you have these beautiful breasts, so why do you want to STAB HOLES THROUGH THEM!? Your tits aren't Christmas trees, so don't hang ornaments from them. Such a turn-off. It ruins sensitivity and interferes with your man sucking on them. Don't try to improve on perfection!
By all means get them pierced and dont worry about them showing through your clothing. You are to be admired for swhowing your sexuality.
I'm getting mine done tonight. The only thing that matters is that I'm doing this for myself and no one else.
Before believing everything you hear, do some research. A woman can still nurse after they've had their nipples pierced.
Also, having done doesn't automatically mean that the person will experience decreaseed sensitivity. Yes it can happen, but usually its because the piercing was done incorrectly or because it wasn't taken care of properly during the healing process.
I hope I can set the record straight for those who might still be debating this issue or may be considering getting nipple piercings. I was 35 and dating a guy for three years before I decided to do this. I had and have a respectable professional job and i would be mortified if my coworkers knew. I do truly believe that the only thing you have to give someone else in life that is sacred is your body. I've never, nor to I believe in exposing myself to anyone other than the one I love. Anyway, I wanted to do this for myself for a while. My nipples were always erect to begin with (which is what they tell you what happens once you pierce them), and honestly it always aroused me to have them played with during sex(if a woman disagrees they're lying gees!) But through all my self critizism, as I am a woman, not perfect in my own perception, they were actually the one thing on my body that I felt looked really good. I went to a good piercer, who was professional, didn't stare or make me feel uncomfortable at all. The next night I went out with my boyfriend and suprised him and danced, moving his hands to me. He was pleasantly suprised and couldnt wait to get home to be with me. Is it any better than that?? He bought a piercing kit and we have fun changing colors of the rings every few weeks.
I come from a different stand point because I have quite a few pieces of metal in me and have my nipples done. The men I have been with loved them because it shows them a sign of risk taking and pure adventure. I also have my hood pierced as well and men take that as an open invitation to play. It really depends on the type of men you go for as well. I haven't had any complaints with them and I've dated guys from redneck to punk. I fit in between the two but that's a different subject. I have a labret and some guys don't like the facial piercings and I'm alright with that, I won't take it out, but I will conserve what jewelry I wear in it. I also have my tongue pierced and 8 ear piercings including plugs. And to the girl that is deciding whether or not to do it, it hurts less than the average piercings like tongue or even cartilage piercings. I also have tattoos but very conservative with them. Piercings can be taken out and healed over, tattoos are a different playing ground. I hope some of my knowledge helped on the matter deuces
I just had my nipples pierced a few months ago. First I had the left one done, liked it so much I had the right one done less than a week later. There was some pain, but it was over quickly. I have expierenced increased sensitivity and absolutely love having my nipples played with. I also had my hood pierced a month ago. I don't regret any of them. And my BF enjoys them as well - especially since I enjoy them.
My only regret? I didn't have it done sooner.
Nipple piercings on a women are very sexy! Not trashy. I am a straight male with a well developed chest and I have both nipples pierced. My wife loves them and enjoys teasing my nipples. It is a personal choice. Don't let anyone tell you different. Be yourself and not who others think you should be. It is your choice alone. Personally I wear clothes that fit and often my piercings can be seen. I am secure enough that it doesn't matter to me what type of reaction I get at work or in public.
Every woman is so different from every other and each individual is so complex that I don't think you can narrow a piercing on any part of the body down to turn on or turn off, independant or slutty. How you would perceive one woman's nipple piercing could be completely different to another and I think it depends on the rest of them, you know?
Personally I think I'm going to get my left nipple pierced tomorrow because it popped into my head today and I'm of the thinking that if I think of something, or feel inclined to do something, and don't do it - I'll think of it another time and therby lose valuable thought time in which I could of had a new thought that I hadn't had before
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Many people don't know how to stop a break-up from happening. As soon as things get tricky, and one partner says something about breaking up, it's as though both partners are just hypnotised - neither of them knows how to stop the break-up from becoming a reality. Time and again, I see people walking away from relationships which clearly still have a lot of love present on both sides. It may seem to you that your relationship is over, for example if your partner has left you and is not taking your calls. I assure you, nothing could be further from the truth! Firstly, when things get fraught, you must avoid the worst relationship killers - those mistakes that turn a wobble into a train wreck. Next, remember that to stop the break-up from becoming permanent, you must keep a level head. Don't panic! You can save your relationship. There are some simple steps to take, once you understand how to save your relationship. You can stop a break-up in its tracks, even it seems to be well on the way. In fact, even if your ex has changed the locks and gotten an unlisted number, you can still get your ex back, using some little-known methods based on subconscious psychology. In fact, guys, if you want to get your girlfriend back, there is an almost foolproof process you can follow, which will melt away the resentments and allow your girlfriend's true love for you to return to the surface. Master this process, and you can get back with your girlfriend faster than you can possibly imagine! For a bit of fun, drop your questions and dilemmas in at EasyToBeRomantic.com - I'll answer them here as and when I can. Remember - no matter how hopeless it looks, you can save your relationship. Get your girlfriend back, and have the life you deserve! It's Easy To Be Romantic!This information proudly brought to you by EasyToBeRomantic.com
premsingh 3 years ago
interesting, but where will it all stop from ear to nose and nose to nipple!